We all know that breastfeeding is the better way to nourish a baby—the American Association of Pediatrics has been very clear on the benefits to both mother and baby of at least six months, and preferably a year or more, of breastfeeding. But whether you’ve put in the time and are feeling burned out, or something is getting in the way of your “breast is best” ambitions —maybe nursing just isn’t working out, or you’re going back to work someplace where pumping is difficult or impossible — there will come a time when the baby must be weaned.

How do you get your little sucker used to the idea that your breast is not hers anymore and milk is no longer a bonding experience? We asked Melissa Clark Vickers, an internationally certified lactation consultant and La Leche League administrator. Bottom line? Like pregnancy, weaning is not an act but a metamorphosis with many starts and turns. The most important things you can do are take your time, tune in to the needs of family members—and cut yourself some slack.



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