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Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

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Amanda_Our365Host

Joined on 01-25-2008

Posts: 1,262

Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

Do we have any moms of twins, triplets, or even more lurking out there? How are you coping with, well, everything? 

mama_of_five

Joined on 02-04-2008

Posts: 3

Re: Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

I guess I'm the first to post a reply. I have five children, the youngest of which are 9 month boy/girl twins. After having three girls, my husband and I decided to try one last time for a boy. We got one of each! I hear people everyday saying "I don't know how you do it. I never could!". All I have to say to that is YES YOU COULD. It's funny, you never know what you can do until you have to do it. I never thought I would be able to handle this many children, until I had them. I am so happy to have them, and it's not as if, after a bad day, I can say "sorry, can't do it, take em back"  even if I wanted to. You go one day at a time, and do what needs to be done, and it's all ok. Somehow, magicly, it's all ok. I deal with each child's crisis as it happens, and don't worry about what hasn't happened. I prepare for the future, but I don't worry about it. Most importantly, I make sure to make time for my husband and self, even if I get to sleep at midnight. Lol.

Amanda_Our365Host

Joined on 01-25-2008

Posts: 1,262

Re: Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

 Wow! mama of five, thank you for sharing your story with us. How old are your other three kids?

 

Thank you for the reminder that moms can make it work in all kinds of circumstances. :)

Doublicious

Joined on 02-15-2008

Posts: 8

Re: Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

 Wow, Mom of five!  Thanks for a positive message and for being a good role model.  I have six-month-old boy/girl twins and I think they are--at least so far--much easier than I was led to believe.  Maybe I lucked out with pretty easy babies and a well-honed ability to prioritize and stay calm in a crisis, too.

strollerguru

Joined on 02-20-2008

Posts: 2

Re: Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

I have boy/girl twins too!  Mine will be 10 in May.  Wow time really flys.  I didn't think it was a difficult as everyone said either.  Don't get me wrong, not that every day was a cake walk.  Each different stage was wonderful to watch with them.  My twins are basically polar opposites and I think that is so funny.  He is so serious all of the time and she doesn't have a care in the world.  He is a blond/short/and a bookworm and she is brunette/tall and plays sports.

We just moved here in July and I used to be a part of a mothers of multiples club.  Is there one in St.Joe?  I know I talked to a gal last week who runs a group in North KC. 

sarahkb316

Joined on 04-07-2008

Posts: 2

Re: Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

hello there -

I had to get in on this too - I have identical g/g twins - they just turned 4 in February - and mine too are complete opposites of each other - Hannah the oldest by 1 min is a lefty and very much the follower - where Alexis the younger ( I think she is only the younger because she pushed Hannah out) is very dominent - and very demanding - but it is so funny to watch them together - I never thought I would have twins - but I wouldn't change a thing about it - I also have a 8 year old daughter - lately my husband and I have been thinking of having a boy - unfortunatly I guess there's no quarentee for that :)

Amanda_Our365Host

Joined on 01-25-2008

Posts: 1,262

Re: Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

Hi Sarah, and welcome to the Our365 community!

 

What a great story about the birth of your twins, and how their personalities have developed over the years. :) They sound like me and my sister, except we were 2.5 years apart (I am the younger and was far, far bossier as a kid!).

 

It must be tempting to "try for a boy." :) I knew a family that had four boys and had just one more in the hopes of having a girl, and well...they have five boys now. :P 

 

I hope you'll stick around and get to know us better!  

sarahkb316

Joined on 04-07-2008

Posts: 2

Re: Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

oh I will be stickin' around for a while - I am now a permanent stay at home mom - I have worked since the twins were 3 weeks old - thanks to my mother in law who watched them- I recently lost my job - but it actually is for the best - I didn't really realize just how much I missed until I was actually home with them all the time -

the only reason also we are thinking about trying for one more is becuase my oldest daughter is not "biologically" my husbands and he kinda in a weird sorta way feels "cheated" because he got 2 at once - so I figured I am home for at least the next 2  years until they get in 1st grade - so heck why not -

oh yeah forgot to tell  you too - I am also a full time student going through the EMT program in my area to hopefully transfer to get my Paramedic - :)

thanks for  having me :)

sarah

 

momoftwins_3

Joined on 04-30-2008

Posts: 2

Re: Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

hi, i have six month old b/g twins who are total opposites of each other. he's older by five minutes but she acts way older & already has two teeth to his none. she likes to hit & bite him but the minute he hits her she screams bloody murder. he's clingy& cries at the smallest thing where she's fine playing alone. she talks, he doesn't. she took the breast, he didn't & that's just to name a few of their differences. i also have two older children who love the twins

mom-of-twins

Joined on 01-31-2009

Posts: 1

Re: Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

I just gave birth to a beautiful set of b/g twins who are now ten weeks old.  Hanna and Ethan are doing great even though they were 5 weeks premature.  They are starting to coo and blow bubbles.  I have them on Simliac Advance, but they are still getting up twice a night to get fed.  Anyone got any suggestions?  My hubby is usually gone all day and I cant get a lick of cleaning done and when he gets home all he wants to do is watch tv (men), which leaves me up most of night cleaning.  I would love to get them to sleep.  Any suggestions?  I am up for anything except the cry-it-out method, I dont believe in it, sorry.

augusttwins2008

Joined on 03-23-2009

Posts: 4

Re: Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

I have fraternal g/g twins...they are 7 1/2 months old Cali is a minute older than Aliaha...Cali started sleeping through the night at 2 months Aliaha on the other hand did not start sleeping through the night till she was 5 months old...let me tell you i am a full time student and i thought i was going to lose my mind...but i didnt...one night she didnt get up and hasnt since then.=). she must of known i really needed the sleep. My girls were 6 weeks early and Aliaha was in the nice for 10 and Cali was in the nicu for 12 days do to her low birth weight. But anways i guess to the reason i am on here....when did your twins start sitting up on there own? They both crawl and pull themselves up but they dont sit up on there own for longer than a minute or so...

Thanks.

Heidi

ChantelleD27633

Joined on 09-29-2008

Posts: 6

Re: Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

Hi Heidi,

 My name is Chantelle and I have fraternal g/g twins as well. They are 6 1/2 months old. One minute apart as well. As for sleeping. I have Danielle that sleeps the whole night with her binky. If it falls out put it back in and she is right back to sleep. Emily on the other hand I am up with usually 1 or 2 times with. Danielle has her 2nd tooth coming in and can sit up on her own. But not for long periods like 5 minutes or longer. She is up on all fours and teeter totters. She hasn't figured out how to take off yet. I'm on all fours trying to show both of them. But they just look and laugh( mommy your silly ) kinda thing. Emily just cut her first tooth and rolls constantly to where she wants to go. She can't siit up unsupported yet and still falls to the sides even when supported. I know thta each baby is different and some things take more time for them to figure out. But as far as sitting up - I think it has a lot to do with muscle strength. Danielle has Emily not quite as much. Be patient though because if they are both crawling. Then they are building lots of muscle. Just have a couple pillows on the ground and and keep encouraging sitting up. I use a ball with Danielle I sit in front of her legs out and roll a toy ball towards her. She doesn't know how to roll it back. But she moves trying so and pulls her self back into balance arms out like she is flying and all trying to keep her balance. I laugh and clap and sa y YAY!!! She gets so excited and wants to keep trying. Emily is so curious but gets easily frustrated because she isn't able to yet/ Hurts my heart.  Not sure if this helped but it was nice being able to share with another multiple mommy.  When did your girls start crawling?

 Thanks,

Chantelle

ChantelleD27633

Joined on 09-29-2008

Posts: 6

Re: Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

Hi I am Chantelle and have twin girls Danielle and Emily.

Put a little rice single grain cereal in there nightime feeding bottle. About 1 teaspoon or 1/4 of the formula scoop. stir well. I lessoned the amount of formula about a half scoop though. It will give your baby a more full effect and will sleep longer. That's what I did with Emily because I was up so much with her feeding through the night while little Danielle slept soundly all night.

 

Chantelle

scc78429

Joined on 04-16-2009

Posts: 3

Re: Moms of multiples—how are you holding up?

Hi im a mom of identical g/g twins sadie and sophia who are 18 weeks old. They are the best thing that has ever happend to me, i enjoy caring for them so much and watching them grow. They were 6 weeks premature but are doing great. I just had a question about them rolling over either from tummy to back or back to tummy, i try to put them on their bellys but they do not like it too much and not for long at all and they are just content laying on their back.

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